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Sunday, June 7, 2009

saturday's lesson

dah alang2 tuleh sunday's lesson,kite cakap pasal saturedays lesson plak..
my baby, si laptop..sakit..
die punye tempat cd x leh pakai..
so..i ask two men to godek2 my baby and save it.thnx to paan n syam..and the sofware was the problem..sesape yg ade prob yg same..if u xperient the same thing..and u can see a glimpse of hope (taken from cuna) u may need this:-

aku dah tekan copy..pastu kan words2 die terus hilang arah tuju...
so..usha sniri jela ek..

http://www.tomshardware.com/forum/242550-32-matshita-850s-device-problems

Sunday's lesson..

while sitting with other humans last night..ive got a new knowledge about people..kredit to Shikin :P..here they are..

Here they are..

In her book “On Death and Dying”, Elisabeth Kübler-Ross described a type of emotional journey among people who are facing death. Since she wrote this book, the model has been found to apply as well, for many people, to other major losses.
Typically, the seven (7) stages of grief are described as:

- Shock or Disbelief
- Denial
- Anger
- Bargaining
- Guilt
- Depression
- Acceptance and Hope

Sometimes, people speak of five (5) stages of grieving, putting together:
- Shock/Disbelief and Denial
- Bargaining and Guilt
-- the stages do not occur the same way for all people; they can last very little time, or a lor of time; and they can be inter-related.

Typically, the first reaction to news of impending doom is shock or disbelief, followed by denial – it’s not true, it can’t possibly happen to me, there must be a mistake–this kind of thing only happens to others, doesn’t it?

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross observed that facing the reality of death leads people to feel very angry, resentful, rageful. This is so unfair!

What do people do when they keep bumping their heads against the seeming invincibility of their opponent? This is the time for unrealistic bargaining – I’ll give you this, and you’ll give me what I want. There’s nothing wrong about bargaining – when it is based on offering the other party something they might really be interested in. It may not be very realistic to try to bargain with natural forces, illness, death…

Guilt is a way of making sense of what is happening, of regaining some form of control over the uncontrollable: “It must be my fault”.
Once the reality of death sets in, the patients feel overwhelmed, they become depressed. All
resistance is futile.

Anger, unrealistic bargaining, depression… this is our struggle against “real” problems in the outside world, but also against our own inner demons.

Some dying people eventually reach a stage where they are fully aware of impending death, and neither angry nor depressed about it. They accept it.

Acceptance of reality need not be synonymous with capitulation, humiliating defeat. There is a difference between accepting what is inescapable – like death, when you’re dying – and cowardly surrendering when you could have fought more. And acceptance need not mean losing your integrity – it can sometimes be quite the opposite. Acceptance is not betrayal.
Acceptance is about using the lessons we learned in life to come to terms with the realities of the world, on our own terms.

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

saye yg x sedar diri esaimen byk..

huhuhu.. i loiikkee lgu nih..
love story

We were both young when I first saw youI close my eyesAnd the flashback startsI'm standing thereOn a balcony of summer airSee the lights,See the party the ball gownsI see you make your way through the crowdYou say helloLittle did I knowThat you were romeo you were throwing pebblesAnd my daddy said stay away from julietAnd I was crying on the staircaseBegging you please don't go, and I saidRomeo take me somewhere we can be aloneI'll be waiting all there's left to do is runYou'll be the prince and I'll be the princessIt's a Love Story baby just say yesSo I sneak out to the garden to see youWe keep quite cause we're dead if they knewSo close your eyesEscape this down for a little whileCause you were romeo I was a scarlet letterAnd my daddy said stay away from julietBut you were everything to meAnd I was begging you please don't go and I saidRomeo take me somewhere we can be aloneI'll be waiting all there's left to do is runYou'll be the prince I'll be the princessIt's a love story baby just say yesRomeo save me, then try to tell me how to feelThis love is difficult, but it's real,Don't be afraidWe'll Make it out of this messIt's a love story baby just say yes, oh,I got tired of waitingWondering if you would ever coming aroundMy faith in you was fadingWhen I met you on the outskirts to town I saidRomeo save me I've been feeling so aloneI keep waiting for you but you never comeIs this in my head, I don't know what to thinkHe knelt to the ground and pulled out a ringAnd saidMarry me juliet you'll never have to be aloneI love you and that's all I really knowI talk to your dad go pick out a white dressIt's a love story baby just say yes.Oh, oh, ohOh, oh, oh, ohCause we were both young when I first saw you
p/s: sbb tgh wat esemen..analysis wat kemudian rr